Time's Translucence

"This [second] year has been more difficult; in a way, my mind is still adjusting to the new reality as she is as alive now as she was before. And time doesn't exist, even though more than a year has gone by. My memories of her, especially the last time I saw her, are in my mind as if that happened not long ago, as fresh as it happened a few days ago. It is strange that time doesn't exist in the same way when thinking of our loved ones who transition to a different realm."


The above is a quote by one of my clients who tragically lost his daughter in December 2022. In it, he eloquently describes time's translucence after losing a child. 🩵 Thank you, J.R., for allowing me to share it.


Holly Margl is the award-winning author of Witnessing Grief; Inviting Trauma and Loss to Our Coaching Conversations, An Enneagram Perspective, coach, coach mentor, and trainer specializing in grief, trauma, and the Enneagram.

 

Bob's Eulogy

Be Humble, Especially About Assessment—by Mario Sikora